"We're up in the A, you so so lame, and no on here even mentions your name"
Why are you so obsessed with me and my family? We love your children! However, we don't need you in our lives anymore. Life has been so great without all your drama! I don't care if you look at my blog. I'm not making it privite, so keep hating. Please move on with your life as we have all moved on from you. We wish you all the best with your new husband and wishing you lots of luck, cause he's gonna need it.
**Dear Blog Friends, this is not directed to you! I love you all!**
It's so sad that she puts Trev's sweet little kids in the middle of things. I hope she will get OVER herself. Get off Welfare and go back to school and get a GED and get a job. Life is not a free ride! Believe it or not, the kids will all turn 18 one by one and the checks will stop coming.
ReplyDeleteGlad she has a new Hubby, or should I say a new man to CONTROL! I feel bad for the kids. I have never seen kids that sun burned in my life. What mom doesn't put sunscreen on her kids at the beach? Oh yes, and you do have to reapply the sunscreen after a few hours...Someone should let her know.
ReplyDeleteHoly cow, do you think she'll ever grow up and learn that she's actually punishing her kids, not Trev? Those poor kids!! So glad she's not my mom.
ReplyDeleteCrystal-I look at your blog for multiple reasons. 1, to keep tabs on how Honda World is doing and I am grateful that you like to update about their success and yes I do look more when my KIDS are there for the summer so I can see them and what they are doing. I miss them like crazy and enjoy seeing pictures of them. I am thankful that your family has finally stepped up and seem to notice the kids. The kids and I have both noticed that you have taken a more active part in their life since the divorce. However, I guess that it isn't that hard seeing as how it is only a small number of weeks a year. I may not agree with the "Perry" way of life but any love and support that my kids can get, well then I support it. Despite my anger towards Trevor, you were a HUGE part of my life for 10 years. Whether you hate this or not, I can't help but wonder how someone I spent so much time with is doing. I see from your comment that you are still pretty bitter towards me. I am my kids Mother and will ALWAYS be in the majority of their life. I'm sorry that you see that as such a bad thing. I do hope and pray that you can keep your catty behavior away from my kids. That is the number one part of the Perry's that I don't want my kids to grow up and be like. I'm not perfect in this, however I do try to shelter them. I am asking that you shelter them too. This post does give me doubts with how you behave. Best of luck to you.
ReplyDeleteLindsey-I wish that I had half the control that you guys seem to think that I had. I guess you will never know the secret hell I lived in being married to your brother. Did my kids get sunburned? YES! Is it my fault? YES! Did I apply sunblock? YES! Did I reapply? NO! 60 degrees and freezing on the beach, well silly me didn't think we needed it. I have been sick to my stomach about it but I am not surprised that mine and the kids misery brought you pleasure. However, I guess that I am happy that the only thing you can come up with is a huge one time mistake on my part. Not my day to day mothering of the kids. I hope someday I can be as perfect as you THINK you are!!!
ReplyDeleteCharity-I barely know you. You never played a roll in mine or those kids lives when I was married to Trevor. What kind of integrity do you honesty have to jump in on this argument. As you don't know me, my kids or both sides of the story, well your opinion is solely based on the Perry story. So no I am not shocked that you hate me.
ReplyDeleteTiffany-Your comment is the one that I have the hardest time controlling my emotions on. You were just down right MEAN! I don't NEED Trevor's money, however these kids are HIS responsibility too. Despite the reasons that we moved down to AZ. the fact is that Trevor ABANDONED US. He packed up his important stuff and had ZERO kids in his car, said he'd be right back and had no intentions of returning. What kind of person does that? Despite what lies Trevor tells, the truth is since he left in Sept of 09' until April 11' we received minimal or NO support for those kids! It wasn't until the Judge ordered that Trevor appear in accountability court that I received a full support payment. He has never WILLINGLY paid me any support. With his arrearages and his interest and the other judgments he owes, well he will be paying off his negligence for a LONG time!!
ReplyDeleteDid I receive food support? YES. Why? I think that paragraph above explains all. The children and I primarily lived on Top Ramen for 7 months after Trevor abandoned us. The food support was such a blessing for these kids. I think that the system is there for those in desperate circumstances, such as abandoned Mother's and children, left helpless suddenly. It is sad that people take advantage of the system like you and Lindsey. You were on housing and food support. Lindsey felt that her family was worthy to be on state assistance. Because I am so grateful for this blessing that came to us I never abused it and never will. We are still on State Insurance as I am left not knowing what to do as Trevor dropped the kids insurance in the beginning of the year despite the fact that he receives a monetary credit toward his child support for covering the kids insurance. However, in August I will not be re-approved as I was fortunate enough to marry Gene. We will then not qualify. I wonder if Trevor will realize that these kids are his responsibility too and not just Gene's and mine.
Really Tiffany? "Life is not a free ride"? Who better to know, THAN YOU!!!! You work for your Daddy!!! You've never been able to hold a job where Ron wasn't your boss! You and Trevor are two peas in a pod!!!
Why don't grow up, worry about your kids and leave me ALONE!!!
K- I'm so over arguing with anybody about you anymore. I have accepted what the judge ordered for both you and Trevor. 100% Trevor should be held accountable for his kids and he should pay for them, as he does. I know that it can't be easy to support 5 kids. As far as me being on state housing.I was 18 years old and Josh was 17 and worked part time at Old Navy we lived on 400 S 1025 East. I still paid $300 a month for 3 months. I only used the WIC program for 3 months. That's all the help I got from the State. I’m not ashamed of it, I needed the help. I do think you should get some help to feed the kids. I'm just bitter about how the entire divorce went down. You know Trevor NEVER abandoned his kids. He was trying to get the divorce to happen in Utah and you know it. I'm done saying bad things about you. I know that being married with 5 kids can't be a walk in the park but, you know that Trevor has always been a great Dad. I don't know about him being a husband but, I know that he tried to give you EVERYTHING you EVER wanted. We can't change the past just the future. I would hope that you can let go of all you hate for him and do what is best for the kids. I don't talk bad about you to your kids. You’re welcome to call them anytime I have anyone of your sweet kids. I know that you feel that I have had a free ride because I work for my "daddy." You're right, I do work for my "daddy" and I have been given incredible opportunities because of it. You should know, while I worked 10-12 hours a day, I paid you to watch my kids. I would have loved to stay home and not have had to work but, if I wanted a home, vacations, cars, and be able to give my kids whatever they wanted then I would have to work very hard for my money. I don't just take it from my “daddy.” Doesn't some of your family work for your Dad? It's a great opportunity and I still wouldn't change it for anything. I have a great family and a great home because of it. I would be willing to help fix Bailey's teeth if you would be civil about it. Please get a few estimates. Your kids have been through way too much. I'm so happy you have found someone to marry. I hope he treats your kids well. From what the kids tell me, they really like him. That makes me happy. Please, for the kids let go of all your hate for Trevor and try to do the right thing. No more lies! Let the kids talk to him as he has let you have complete access. It’s not about winning, it's about your kids.
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